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Tuesday, June 19, 2012

Turtle Camp

As Oia's preschool year was ending for summer, I began to think How in the world am I going to keep this child entertained all summer long? She is so busy, rarely stops to sit, has a tiny attention span, and have I mentioned she's busy? I created a mental list, a summer bucket list if you will, of small tasks, crafts, and outings to keep the days from getting too long. One of the things on my list was to enroll Oia in a non-therapy related summer camp (ie. something FUN!) where she must attend without me and be among peers of the same age group all the while carrying over some structure to mimick preschool. This idea is a major leap outside of my comfort zone. I'm her voice, her interpreter, her safety net, her coach and cheerleader, her front line. Leaving her amid neurotypical peers without me is not my idea of easy. But I knew I had to make it happen, for the both of us. Growth happens outside the box. Usually.

I began collecting any local publication I saw that featured summer camps in our area. I have to admit, I read selectively for ones that may be geared for or have experience with special needs campers. It's just engrained in me. I also looked for camps that would offer a nice balance of physical movement and structured activity. Indoor vs outdoor, all day vs. a couple of hours per day, camper:instructor ratio, etc... I considered a number of things. After a few phone calls to various potential places, I finally decided to have faith and send Oia to a week of turtle camp at Explorations Play Studio.

We (the girls and I) went to an open studio session prior to making the decision. We had never been before and I had to check out the place first. The studio is small, one level, and full of plenty of things to do. Mainly self-guided exploration. Imaginative play. Trays of "stuff" to manipulate, make, mold, build, touch. Blocks for building, various manipulatives. Fine motor heaven. Not at all what my visually impaired, gross motor seeking Oia is interested in. My child is the total opposite of fine motor and self-guided. It was a stretch. But, I sent her anyway. I liked the balance between (flexible) structure and free play they provided. But still, I forced us both to step outside of the box with this one.

Camp (drop-off situation, no parents) was last week, Monday - Friday, for 3 hours each afternoon. Oia was one of 7 campers. The week's theme was all things turtles. Turtle books, turtle stories, turtle games, turtle figuerines, live turtles, turtle crafts, tons of turtles, turtles, turtles.... but I didn't care about that. I just wanted Oia to A) follow the structure and routine of camp, B) be an accepted part of the whole, and C) engage/communicate/play appropriately and safely with her peers. Sounds simple, but it's a continuous learning process for Oia. And because of this, she needed a shadow to help her successfully make the most out of the camp experience. So, that's what we got her ~ her very own shadow.

Our wonderful PT suggested a girl in her neighborhood that she thought would be a perfect shadow for Oia. The situation worked out beautifully. Oia quickly fell in love with "Anna", as she called her, and "Anna" was so dedicated and attentive to Oia that I felt completely at peace each day with Oia under her care. In discussions with the teachers prior to camp, they stated they felt comfortable enough to help Oia as needed but I knew they didn't fully understand her demands so "Anna" was a true blessing.

On the last day of camp, the teachers presented a brief slide show of photos to showcase the week's activities. All of the turtle masterpieces were on display as well and kids were busy showing their parents what all they did throughout the week. Some were stating turtle facts, facts I didn't even know. Impressive really, especially coming from the mouths of 4-8 year olds. But, bittersweet too. My child was at camp for other reasons, not to learn and retain turtle facts, although that would have been nice. I just wanted Oia to learn to speak the word "turtle". To focus. To pay attention. To remain on her mat for all of circle time. To attend a task or craft from start to finish. No, scratch that. To sit down and begin a craft. To interact with a new face and have that new face interact with her. I think she did that. Most of it, maybe. With the help of her shadow, at least. A shadow that the teacher's admitted on the final day was necessary for Oia.

I do believe camp was a good idea, even if just for the exposure of something new. For Oia, exposure is key. I'm proud of the smiles I got from Oia at pick-up each afternoon. Those speak volumes. I'm proud that by the end of the week, Oia could say "turtle" if I scripted it for her, maybe she got something more out of it, like some useless turtle fact, but I'll never know. "Anna" told me that the older peers of camp willingly helped Oia. That's nice to hear. I'm proud that by the end of the week, Oia was more attentive during group activities than at the beginning of the week. And really, I'm just proud that I have daughter to drive to camp and one who is able enough to be there and enjoy it. She went. And bottom line, I'm proud of my turtle camper and her personal best.

Non-therapy related summer camp. CHECK!

Photos: One of Oia's turtle masterpieces from the week, and Oia with her lovely shadow, "Anna".

1 comment:

  1. Oh my, my Emma LOVES turtles. Emma would have loved that camp. Unfortunately, I don't think my Emma could have been able to go to it because of the level of her disabilities. Emma would have definitely needed a "shadow." I am glad that the camp was open to that and saw the benefit in the end. Maybe more kids with special needs will be able to attend one of their camps in the future because you and Oia were brave enough to be pioneers. And, all I can say is, "Thank God for Anna!"